Let’s make one thing clear – the only person who gets to decide what is done with my body is me. If you, as woman, decide that you only want to have sex with the person you marry, you are allowed to do so. But telling other woman that their body is a gift to give to their husband is incredibly judgmental and shaming. It punishes other women who don’t make the same decisions that you do, implying that there’s something wrong with them for choosing not to wait. There’s nothing wrong with waiting, and there’s nothing wrong with not waiting. Having sex is a private decision between the participating parties.
Furthermore, you may think that your child is a gift, and you are allowed to think so. But telling an outside party how they should view having children imposes your view on them. Maybe I don’t want to have children. Maybe I do, when I am financially capable of taking care of one. Maybe I want to adopt a child. No one else is allowed to have an opinion on anyone else’s child bearing choices."